PARENTS WHO HOST
Don't be a party to teenage drinking. It's against the law.
GET THE FACTS. THEY'RE SOBERING.
FACT: It is a criminal offense in the state of New Jersey (2C:33-17a) to serve alcohol to anyone who is under the legal age of 21.
FACT: It is a criminal offense in the state of New Jersey (2C:33-17b) to make your home or property available for the purpose of allowing minors a place to consume alcohol.
FACT: New Jersey's Social Host Liability Law imposes civil penalties on social hosts who serve alcohol to minors who subsequently are involved in incidents causing death or injury.
Alcohol- Youth's #1 Drug of Choice!
National research shows that 57% of minors reported drinking at friends' homes. Local surveys suggest that 60% - 80% of 11th and 12th graders obtain alcohol from home or home parties, with 30% reporting that they consume alcohol at home with their parent's permission.*
7.8% of New Jersey's 8th graders and 10% of New jersey's 7th graders have used alcohol in the past 30 days**
About 4 in 5 (78.5%) of NJ's high school students have used alcohol in their lifetime and nearly half (48%) used alcohol in the past 30 days.**
Nationally, 12% of 8th graders, 22% of 10th graders, and 29% of 12th graders report having consumed five or more drinks in a row in the last two weeks.**
CONSEQUENCES OF USE
More than 40% of individuals who begin drinking before age 13 will develop alcohol abuse or dependency at some point in their lives.**
Underage drinking is a factor in nearly half of all teen automobile crashes and 50% - 65% of youth suicides. Alcohol abuse is linked to as many as two-thirds of all sexual assaults and date rapes of teens and college students.*
27.9% of New Jersey's 7th and 8th graders who used alcohol in the past 30 days got F's.**
Almost 12% of adolescent drinkers engage in alcohol-related physical fighting.**
*Source: Institute for Public Strategies Briefing
**Source: National Council on Alcoholism and Drug Dependence - New Jersey
SUGGESTIONS FOR PARENTS IF YOUR TEEN IS GIVING A PARTY
Put your phone number on the invitation and welcome calls from parents.
Avoid sending e-mail invitations as these can be easily forwarded to mass amounts of people and you can lose control of who has the information.
Let attendees know that if they leave the party, they can't come back.
Be sure all forms of alcohol, firearms, and over the counter/prescription medications are secured and in a safe place.
Be clear that there will be no alcohol, drugs or tobacco at this party.
WHAT CAN YOU DO AS PARENTS?
Talk to your kids about the consequences of alcohol and drugs, AND don't be afraid to talk to your kids' circle of friends. Set and communicate clear rules - be direct about your expectations and the consequences of your child's actions.
If your teen is attending a party, call the parent host to ensure there will be appropriate supervision and no alcohol. Call your friends' parents and make sure you're all on the same page about underage drinking and how your child is getting to and from the party. ALWAYS give your child permission to call you at any hour for any reason for a ride. Help your child identify another adult they trust and can also call at any time for help.
Be a good role-model for your child.
Help your teen to make healthy lifestyle choices.
Talk to older siblings about the consequences of supplying alcohol to younger brothers and sisters or their friends.
Where Can You Turn for Help?
IMPORTANT TELEPHONE NUMBERS
Addiction Helpline of Parents Support NJ | Addiction Hotline of New Jersey | Alcoholics Anonymous | AIAnon/Ala Teen - families/friends | Center for Alcohol & Drug Resources | Nar-Anon Families & Friends of Addicts | Narcotics Anonymous of NJ | National Suicide Prevention Hotline | National Runaway Switchboard | National Youth Crisis Hotline | Parents Anonymous/Family Helpline | Psychiatric Intervention Screening | Rape Crisis Hotline - 24 hour hotline | Safe Haven for Infants Hotline | Jersey Battered Women's Service | NJ Domestic Violence Hotline | NJ Child Abuse Hotline | First Call for Help (connect & get answers) |
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800-561-4299 | 800-238-2333 | 800-245-1377 | 973-744-8686 | 201-488-8680 | 732-591-1827 | 800-992-0401 | 800-273-TALK | 800 RUNAWAY | 800-442-4673 | 800-843-5437 | 201-262-HELP | 201-487-2227 | 877-839-2339 | 973-267-7520 | 800-572-7233 | 800-792-8610 | 2-1-1 |
Useful Websites
National Council on Alcoholism & Drug Dependence | National Institute on Alcohol Abuse & Alcoholism | New Jersey Prevention Network | Drug Free New Jersey | Willow Tree Center | New Jersey Quit Net | Teens - Freevibe | Young Teens- The Cool Spot | Parents - The Anti-Drug | Family Guide | 40 Developmental Assets | Youth Empowerment Alliance | Find Treatment | NJ AI-Anon/Ala-teen |
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CONSEQUENCES ... IT CAN BE A VERY COSTLY CHOICE!
It's a criminal offense in NJ to allow underage drinking in your home, so for starters, you're looking at a disorderly persons charge - that's a record and a fine!
If an underage party-goer drives after drinking, it will cost you, If your car is damaged or if you submit a claim on your insurance policy, get ready to payout again. Additionally, you may risk losing your policy.
You will be held civilly liable if sued by another parent. Injuries, alcohol poisoning, sexual assault, drowning, or suicide may result in lawsuits. You can't put a price on relationships, but you've just lost the trust of other parents and you've lost the respect of your neighbors and friends.
It's a criminal offense in New Jersey to allow underage drinking in your home.